Monday, August 20, 2012

A bigger goodbye...

On Friday noon  Mom (Barkman) moved into the presence of Jesus. I'm sure it was a happy reunion, Mom and Jesus, because they were always good friends. And I think as we make plans to remember her life, Mom is maybe just sitting at Jesus's feet,  enjoying in a new way the thing she enjoyed here on earth. We are beginning the journey of grieving, but Mom is full of joy and her hope is fulfilled!

We spent Saturday packing up and talking with family, then left Arizona early on Sunday morning. We hope to arrive home on Tuesday afternoon. Funeral services are planned for Thursday morning, a time to celebrate Mom's life and the way she impacted us and so many other people.

Mom was a woman of strength and character. She lived life to the fullest, passionate about God and her family. She hated gossip and loved to hear what God was doing. She enjoyed a well-organized home and loved to see things really clean. She was proud of her kids, all of them. She loved her grandkids and was proud of the way they were turning out. She prayed for all of us family and so many others fervently and often. She spent time in the Word, continually growing in her love of Jesus. Last time we were home she told me she was getting excited about heaven in a new way. I think she's really excited about heaven now....

The tears fall, but the sadness is mingled with joy as I realize that Mom fought a good fight and finished the race well. She left us a beautiful legacy. Thank you, Mom, for making sure I knew I really was part of this family....

3 comments:

us5 said...

I'm so sorry, Cynthia. Praying for you all right now, that the God of all comfort will surround you with His love and peace and strength; simultaneously rejoicing with you that she is with her Savior!

Patrick said...

I was with my mother 15 years ago when she went "home."
Mary and I were with her mother when she went "home."
Makes me think of the song This World Is Not My Home arranged by A. Brumley. Very encouraging.

Garry and Cynthia Barkman said...

thanks, us5 and Patrick.

God is doing neat things, even though it hurts. So thankful we can be here during this time.

And God is answering prayers and blessing us with His strength and grace these days also.